Scene looked like a time lapse of a wilting plant. She was kind and patient, though. A few minutes later and some more heavy petting I was ready to disappoint her properly. And boy, did I! We were 14 years old. It was awkward and uncomfortable and made me associate Weird Al goddamn Weird Al , of all things! Had my house to ourselves. We had the movie, The Collector on TV. Things got heated as we were making out and she said she was ready to go all the way.
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He was on the bigger side, so he just kind of went at full force and I bled like a fucking waterfall. I felt bad about his sheets and carpets after. The end. I was 13 and my fiancee boyfriend at the time and I walked about 4 miles in the middle of the summer to buy condoms from the gas station. Then we snuck off to the woods behind his house to have sex. For some reason, three or four neighborhood dogs decided to steal my panties from under my back then return them to his front porch three weeks later with a giant hole in the ass. Oh, also since it was summer at dusk and my fiancee is a profuse sweater, for a little while there, he was on top of me dripping sweat so bad that I thought it was raining. He ended up with about forty mosquito bites and had to take a bath in Epsom salt.
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Today was his day off and not one word from him. Let him respond before you say anything else. But it would not change my love for that person. I think we date twice a year. No one should feel excluded from the House of the Lord. I am not a doctor's wife so I won't say I understand, but I will give you a virtual hug.